I was recently asked if I have any tips for men to slow down..
Added 2020-10-18 23:36:07 +0000 UTCI was recently asked if I have any tips for men to slow down and tease better during love-making. This is what I said: I feel that slowing down IS part of teasing better. It is best to practice surrender and presence, which can be done outside of sex through meditation, and then practiced DURING sex so that sex BECOMES meditation. Take in each moment as something new, allow it to unfold naturally, rather than focusing on the end goal i.e. cumming (or trying not to cum). It's a play, a journey, not a destination. Society says sex is not successful without ejaculation, but cumming does not always equal orgasm. Breathe, explore your partner as an entire kingdom you've just discovered, take breaks, talk, communicate, breathe more, breathe deeper, open your heart and your entire being consciously, etc. The moment is all we have, and when we are present for it we expand our pleasure potential for ourselves and our partners. And so it is.🙏🏼✨💚
