Tonight I had my date with a girl I am dating to see if we c..

Tonight I had my date with a girl I am dating to see if we connect. It was the third date and I am looking forward to a poly relationship with her. Did you all know I’m not just a swinger. I always thought until recently I just liked having sex with other women but I like having relationships too. I have had several poly relationships. She would be the fourth one if we keep on our current path. I can’t give her a number still though. This is the first date I tried to have sex with her. The first date was lunch then the next date was a movie. You read that story before. This date I took her in my limo. Last date I felt a connection. I felt more with her and could tell she liked me. So I know I want to continue what we have but how. To me hotels are for flings not poly girls. So that was our. My Rv is way too small and it’s not even on Tricities. Oh wait. I own a limo. I decided then right then what the next date idea is. I don’t tell her. I let it be a surprise. Just asked if I could pick her up. She agreed. I decided to take her to a restaurant I was pretty sure she hadn’t been to. I was right. I didn’t know at the time but my limo was the first she has been in. I don't talk to women about sex unless I know they are ok with it. So I don’t have the, Do you wanna have sex talk before going on a date. Instead I create an atmosphere that entices and allows it to happen. The limo was a perfect idea. I take them to the restaurant first then have my driver drive is around for a little bit. I could tell she wasn’t comfortable being on the limo without her seatbelt so I had the driver stop to give us a chance to see what happens. We chatted a lot about non-monogamous relationships and poly and how it’s so different from one person to the next. We clock very well on a personal level. We could probably talk for days and never run out of topics. Maybe weeks. I never know what I’m getting when I met a woman. I don’t know if they are a candidate to date such as poly until I see them and talk with them and engage with them. I can tell I like this one for more than sex. For guys looking for poly. You can’t hunt it down. You can’t force it. It either happens or it doesn’t. The more you look for it the further it will be. I have never found a poly partner the same way I have found a sexual partner. Not one. All of my poly partners have come about because I live non-monogamous openly. First one was from a friend of my wife’s. Second one came from a friend of a girl I knew from sex. Third one was a girl from a bar I met in public. This one was from a poly group on Facebook. The group on Facebook isn’t even based near me and she commented on one of my posts about location and I asked her if I could DM her and then I asked to see her on a date. Very few girls get past one date as far as poly. It’s because this is more personal to me than just sex. Lots for girls I connect with sexually want poly with me but I don’t have that personal connection so I can’t. So this girl is amazing. She is a little hard to read for me which is out of my norm. However she gives enough that I know she liked me but not enough to know how much. Remember I never do anything I don’t know the answer to. I never ask a question I don’t know the answer to. Ever. Also I don’t bring up sex first. I let her do that. Then I am careful how I talk about it. So we are in the limo and I had the driver go park. I move us to the middle seats where I can lay her down if it gets that far. We still talk but soon I go in to kiss her. This whole time we were touching and holding each other so kissing was the next step. She kisses me deeply and passionately. Easily one of the deepest kisses I have had. This shows me even more that she likes me for more than a friend. I let my hands wander a little. Around her stomach and shoulders. I touch her face and neck. Play with her ear and brush her cleavage sticking out of the dress she wore. I love touch so I’m in heaven being able to touch her and feel her touching me. I have wanted to from the moment we met. I just am too reserved to rush a good thing. Rushing this could push her away. I feel her chest over her dress now while pushing my thigh into her groin. I feel how hot she is and I’m even more aroused. I move her legs so I’m in the middle and I am pushing my groin against hers. Like sex through our clothes while still kissing her and touching the rest of her body. Everyone reading this, and now her, knows how much I love a woman’s breasts. Nothing better on earth. I go in for the breasts now. I put my hand on her chest over her clothes then to her cleavage and around waiting for a yes or no body language. Sometimes a girl will grab my hand and move it inside her shirt. If a girl moves your hand down to her stomach to waist then that’s a no. That doesn’t mean never but it means no still. Listen to it. I don’t get either. So I go inside her bra and feel her cleavage and barely touch her nipple and then back out touching on top. Listening and watching and feeling for cues. I don’t see any no’s so I go back in and get some more of her breast on my hand. She has lovely breasts. Large and soft with perky nipples. I’m very fond of them. I pull one out so I can see her nipple and suck on it. I’ve my hand to her crotch and rub her through her clothes. I rub her legs and feel she has nylons on so that’s an issue trying to get inside her. I don’t try to pull off her nylons at all just make out and play with her chest. We stopped since it was getting late and we both enjoyed ourselves. Was her first time on a limo and first time making out in one. Someone asked if I could go on a date and not have sex. This was my third date with her and third date not having sex. Sex is just a bonus if it happens. I don’t date women just to have sex. I date them to show them a good time.