I hope you’re loving the depth and sensuality of this photoset as much as I am.
Let’s get the last 10 photo and video posts to 100 posts, as well as reach the recent goal of $33, and then I’ll share more to the feed.💛
I’ve gotten lots of questions from women recently this general question: How do I get him to want to be more intimate?
There are so many reasons to contemplate regarding masculine-expressing men and intimacy.
But on the basis of masculine and feminine dynamics, the feminine-expressing woman invites him in.
She doesn’t chase or complain that he doesn’t understand, doesn’t try to convince him.
She opens up her heart, she grounds herself in authenticity, she connects to her sensuality, and through this radiance of light and life, he is drawn in naturally.
You drawn him in as the embodiment of pure desire.
Not as the therapist.
Not as the mother.
As the embodiment of pure desire, intimacy, and connection.
Of course both parties have a responsibility. For the feminine-expressing woman to open wider, she wants to feel held in a safe container of trust and love.
In the embodiment of femininity, your authentic expression is an invitation to go deeper in itself.
Total magnetization, and it extends beyond romantic relationships as well.
It extends to all areas of life.
An invitation to the Universe through present-moment embodiment.
Your desires come to you, and it’s so easy. It’s fucking allowed to be. It’s the natural flow of the Universe.
But it does take practice.
All my love.
Whew! I just answered HALF of my DM's.
I have so so many.
Thank you all for your amazing support and thank you so much for your patience in getting back to you.
I will answer the rest tomorrow.
Deepening your relationship with sex = deepening your relationship with self = deepening your relationship with others.
Even if you are celibate.
Because sex = all of creation = YOU!
A beautiful ritual to do prior to sex is to each spend 5-10 minutes serving each other in whichever ways the other person desires, prior to penetration.
It could be dancing, teasing, eye-gazing, asking intimate questions, kissing, touching, etc.
If it’s difficult to switch roles for you (and because there’s a lot of sexiness in staying in one role intentionally) then just choose one partner to serve and one to receive.
A feminine woman does not accept a masculine man out of alignment with his authentic mission.
She understands his service here comes first and she trusts that from this alignment he will m e e t her with deeper presence and deeper love.
In the fully embodied conscious relationship neither partner comes first in the other one’s life.
Their priority is first and foremost to themselves and how they show up for the world, and from a place of wholeness then they come to each other.
In union.
In freedom.
And in love.
Create a different story for your body by tapping into the simple pleasures of everyday life.
And eventually going even deeper into this pleasure.
Pleasure so deep it creates a story more epic than the pain.
It’s possible.
Happy June my loves!
Let’s get the last video post to 100 likes and then I will be showering (no pun intended) you all with lots of wonderful posts tomorrow!
And catching up with messages.
And updating you all with some life juiciness.
Sending you lots of lot, gratitude, and goodnight kisses for now.✨💕🍯🙏🏼🥰
The advice: “If they cum and you don’t, they don’t care about you” or “You’re abandoning yourself” is total bullshit.
Because this simply isn’t how the cycle of giving and receiving works. This is scarcity mindset, acting under the assumption that love and the physical expression of love is finite.
No. Love is infinite and overflowing.
(Plus there will be plenty of moments where you might orgasm and they don’t, or you both orgasm, or neither of you do. And that’s 100% okay. It’s a play, it’s not a competition or a performance.)
There are many ways one can surrender. As a feminine woman, surrendering in total service to the masculine is a breath of fresh air. A weight lifted off the shoulders. A container to simply radiate my love into.
It’s the feeling of letting go of myself, to be me for the pleasure of my lover, in whatever ways they desire.
This isn’t something that is necessarily easy, if the masculine is not showing up with presence and safety in order to hold the feminine in trust.
But when it happens, mmmmm. Delicious.
See, sometimes surrender asks us to release expectations and fears regarding our own body and experience of pleasure, in order to tend to ourself and our potential in moments of intimacy.
This is a wild, deep unfolding as well.
Sometimes surrender is about stepping deeper into our authentic desires.
Sometimes it’s an act of trust, to HEALTHILY abandon ourselves for a moment of time, in service to another.
And simultaneously, being filled so fully in the process, our feminine heart overflowing with the masculine’s ability to take control of his own authentic desires as well.
Intimacy is trust, plain and simple.
And surrender is courageous ecstasy.
Yes please, give me more.✨🔥💦🤤
People are very disconnected from their bodies, so much so that they feel uncomfortable by you being in touch with yours.
Keep going deeper anyway.
Moan at the fucking restaurant table.
Make em’ even more uncomfortable.
I can’t wait for you guys to watch the video, you’ll have to let me know what you think.💚
I also realize that I owe some new subscribers my previous boy/girl blowjob video, so I will get to that tomorrow! Thank you for being patient!
Also...I know a couple of days ago I did a deal saying that if we got to 30 purchases in 24 hours I would do a self-pleasure video to the feed, and to be honest I’m not sure if we made it in 24 hours, but we are well over 30 purchases at this point. So I’m just going to do that anyway. Hehe thank you so much for the support.☺️🙏🏼
Ways to find gratitude for difficult situations:
• Thank you for showing me what isn’t for me.
• Thank you for this divine intervention.
• Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to grow.
And thank you for all of the ways in which I do not know presently this situation is aligning me deeper into my Dharmic path.
I am willing to trust in the bigger picture even when it’s scary and tough.
Because I know I can always come back to love.
🌿🍯🌸💃💚💦🙏🏼